Religion can heat up – or cool down – a Sista’s passion, sexual pleasure or love life.

May 20, 2017, Comments Off on My Beloved Son, You Must Change Your Ways – By Guest Blogger EjnosillA

As I sit here reflecting on my life –  as I oftentimes do after reading my Quran – I often ponder about the spiritual fate of my children, I affectionately […]

Now… If I Wear My Hijab…Would You Kindly Shut Up And Sit Down?! By ejnosillA

March 22, 2017, 1 Comment

As a recent Muslim convert, I have found myself in numerous, but friendly conversations about my Islamic beliefs. However, on one particular day at wo ...

Thanksgiving During Challenging Times: SIZZLE WITH SOPHIA

November 21, 2016, 5 Comments

I think we can all agree that 2016 has been a rough year.  First we had to endure losing such musical icons as the legendary Natalie Cole and Maurice ...

Prince: Christian And Sex-Positive – ASK A SEX THERAPIST

May 12, 2016, 2 Comments

When I first heard there was a death at Paisley Park, my heart immediately sank. I instinctively knew it was Prince, but didn’t want to believe it. ...

  • He Is Risen
    March 27, 2016, 2 Comments

    He is risen. He is risen indeed. For Christians these are the words that mark Easter; the defeat of death. After 40 days of Lent, reflection and sacrifice, today we […]

  • God, Guilt, And Sexual Pleasure: The Black Woman’s Dilemma
    July 24, 2015, Comments Off on God, Guilt, And Sexual Pleasure: The Black Woman’s Dilemma

    How many times have you been in bed with your partner—doing some kinky awesome ish, floating on a sea of sensation and totally lost in the sauce—when you suddenly felt […]

  • Sensuality Without Sex! – Lillian Ogbogoh
    June 17, 2015, Comments Off on Sensuality Without Sex! – Lillian Ogbogoh

    Most of the time, when we hear the words sensuous and sensual, there is an immediate assumption to it meaning sexual.  Most people can’t be blamed for this line of […]

  • Soiled Virginity: The Jana, Jill, And Jessa Duggar Story
    June 5, 2015, Comments Off on Soiled Virginity: The Jana, Jill, And Jessa Duggar Story

    As the sad, sordid story of Josh Duggar’s molestation of his sisters and his parents’ cover up continues to unfold, one story isn’t being told: what happens to young girls […]