Ladies, waiting until you get married is sexy. Here is a Sista’ from Nigeria who shares why she’s waiting, and a couple from around the way who tell you why they waited until they were married before they had sex.

If you’re waiting, these stories will let you know you’re not alone. If waiting isn’t for you, these stories may give you another perspective on sexual relationships and their purpose. For more personal confessions about waiting – the good and the bad – here are 16 confessions posted on Huffington Post.