Ladies – do you have some WAP – like Cardi B? Yes. Wet Ass Pussy. If you’ve got it. Flaunt it.
Get a mop and a bucket: female lubrication is sexy and hot. And, everybody is talking about it. WAP showcases Black women demanding pleasure and explaining how they want it, standing in stark contrast to the scenario of women being made to feel embarrassed by having so much natural lubricant or ejaculate. Remember “The Flood” monologue in the The Vagina Monologues? An older woman who came of age during the 1950’s shares how when she went on a drive in high school with a handsome suitor, she got so aroused that a gush of female fluid or ejaculate rushed out of her, staining the car seat and her dress. The large volume of love juice disgusted her guy and humiliated her. After that, the woman, who had never experienced such strong sexual arousal before, said she was so mortified she shut her vagina off from all contact. She told the interviewer that if her vagina wore a sign, it would say “Closed. Due to flooding.”
In society, Black women have been depicted as either very religious and prude or hyper sexual, like an animal. But, in music, such as Hip Hop, Black women have taken control over nasty name-calling and relish in their own our sexuality. The chanting WAP chorus in the background There’s some whores in the House. There’s some whores in the House, sounds more like a religious affirmation than judgmental scolding
We, Sista’s have been bragging, showing off our stuff and putting it out there for years. Taking our sexual power back from men. Remember L’il Kim and “Suck My D*ck?” Like L’il Kim, Cardi B is deciding how to use sexual language to her benefit and power. And don’t forget Foxy Brown, Missy Elliott and more.
Male rappers tell us about their junk. And, we don’t let them outdo us.
Today, a lotta women want to squirt and gush but this sexual power is relatively new and not everyone embraces it. There are books and online articles helping women to gush their juice at orgasm and teach men how to make their women’s juices flow. But, ladies, it’s not about about the gush but pleasure. Right?
Of course, there has been some shock over the lyrics and dance in Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion’s latest song (particularly from conservative men). But, the song has gone viral and now tops many charts. It’s number one on the most important Hot 100. Seven days after being made available, WAP is the best-selling song in the U.S. Plus – everyone is trying to do the dance. Tiktok has even launched a WAP dance context.
Ladies, show them some WAP!
Keep it healthy!
Keep it sexy!