Okay. 2012 is still new. We still have time to get things right. What’s more thrilling is that we have time to prepare for Valentine’s Day and the little “get togethers” leading up to the big day, right?.

Right?

This is a great time to make sure you’re using condoms properly. I mean, thanks to SuzyKnew and other sites, you got your condom phone app.

Now, you can make sure you’re using them correctly. An article from About.com (a good source for contraception methods and feedback) shows you how!

Today in the US, we celebrate the life and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, the famous African-American civil rights leader. The holiday is celebated in other countries as well. Dr. King stood for equality and used non-violence to fight for equality among races and all people. Use this day to reflect on how you promote civil rights and oppose abuse of all kinds. Stop accepting abusive relationships; love yourself and seek out healthy and loving sexual relationships.

Well it’s a new year. Yep – 2012. Should I fly away from the Gabonese Pilot? If you remember, I met him last year on Valentine’s Day in a small West African country.

Then I found out he’s married. But, we’ve been in touch ever since. I mean why sit home bored when you can, text, skype, and chat your way to pleasure, right? Well, then I started feeling a little silly when I remembered the the article I read a few months ago: “Ladies, Stop the Sexting.”

I mean it hadn’t gotten that far but I did start thinking what is this guy telling other poeple about me. Any suggestions out there?

I know I am generalizing when I say this, but women and Hallmark make a bigger deal out of Valentine’s Day than is totally necessary. I know it’s not politically correct, but we women put way too much pressure on ourselves and our partners to have a perfectly romantic Valentine’s Day. So instead of going for romance, I say we go for HOT!

I once heard that men think about sex more that women do. Well, I don’t know how true that is, but I know I think about sex. A LOT. And in this modern era, when women who are openly sexually active are becoming more and more accepted in the western world, this isn’t really a big deal.

That is, except when you’re a good girl from the only predominantly Catholic country in Asia, the Philippines.

Last month in April my period was on for four days. On the 14th of May my period in normal and went off on the 20th. A day after I started getting brownish discharge that lasted three days then it turned into regular bleed. Now its been period like bleed with tiny bloodclots. All this started May 21-28 about a week and still bleeding.