Over the years, I’ve had friends complain about men who were not well-endowed enough to satisfy them. Many women don’t mind telling you they need a big dick (or a BD, as I like to say) to get it on. I mean who hasn’t participated in a lively female group discussion about the problems with small male genitalia and how he just can’t bust you out with his little worm?
But, what about the woman who finds that her man’s BD is simply TOO big? Often, she’ll whisper this problem in a serious tone and hushed voice, afraid of being judged. Few women are comfortable telling you they can’t seem to take all of their man inside them. They may feel this makes them less of a woman or that they should be enjoying what every woman supposedly dreams of. So, as a result, there aren’t many exciting articles on the topic, offering good tips.
Lucky for us, today’s EmandLo, a popular website run by two lady sexperts, provides good pointers on how to deal with a man who may just bust you out with his super sperm. Of course “lube it up” is the first tip. But, click here to get more info on how to turn your painful love session into a pleasurable one.
I’ll admit that when I first read the opening lines, I thought “there’s no such thing as too big”! But, I know that’s not true. I’ve been there, and it was a cringe-worthy experience. However, I wish the writers had distinguished between “too wide” and “too long”, because the methods for dealing with each can sometimes be different. For example, I’ve heard of (but have never actually seen) these rings that the “too long” man can put at the base of his penis, which shortens how far into the vagine he goes. And an added bonus is that the ring can also provide extra stimulation for the woman. Has anyone else heard of these rings?
Oh la la! BIG dicks…I love them! I agree with Sophia, the writer should have elaborated more about the various lengths and girths of BIG dicks that determines how best to handle them :-).
What is more important to me when I am fortunate to get intimate with a man with a BIG dick, is the man himself. Men with BDs can either be gentlemen or bruts (I prefer the former) – being aware of his massiveness and how deep to enter. However, if you are dealing with either or, honest and open communication can make the experience FANTASTIC! Lots of kissing and foreplay creates lots of natural lube, slow entry, and be open to experiencing different positions to make all that BIGness more comfortable and pleasurable. And Goddesses, don’t forget how much ORAL fun a woman can have with it.
It’s true, there is such thing as “Too Big.” And it is not very satisfying and could be more painful. I feel for any woman that may have to deal with a vagina reconstruction. It also depends on the woman. I would appreciate if the writer also focused on more health facts and cautions for women to be educated about what would be the best precautions or methods for handling BD’s. Call me old school, but my little kitten is not an open door 7/11 station, nor can we all be Janet Jackme (Take it in tha….yes, yes, yes, what!).